*grin* Actually, I prefer using real names when I can, since I usually think of my friends by their names and not their handles. However, I know several of my friends strongly desire to keep their online identities separate from their names and faces, so I err on the side of caution if I'm not sure. I've seen you put your name in your journal, so I know I'm not giving away any secrets, and, well, there's amy_pearlman, but I really don't know who else is OK with it.