Actually, let me clarify here, for anyone else who's reading as well: I don't think he expected anyone to do his dirty work. If I had been in his shoes, I would have hoped that someone who was engaging in the conversation would make it go away subtly, because stepping in and making a fuss draws more attention than just ignoring it. Since I've thought of it now, I wish I'd thought of it then. That's all.
Gary doesn't bother me. What bothers me is realizing that I could have been helpful and wasn't.
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Date: 2011-01-22 05:17 am (UTC)Gary doesn't bother me. What bothers me is realizing that I could have been helpful and wasn't.